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7 Reasons Why You May Be Attracting Toxic People

Do you sometimes have people in your life that drain you and you aren't sure WHY you attracted them?  We are told to assume that LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE, but what I found was that when it comes to attracting toxic people, quite the opposite is true.  Many web searches will teach you traits of toxic people and how to avoid them.  For me, that was pretty obvious, what I wanted was to PREVENT them from coming into my life and to recognize WHY.  In this video, I share 7 personal qualities you may posses that attracts toxic people to you like an insect to light.

If you attract toxic people, it's actually a GOOD thing, in that you are a really decent person that feels depth in people and quality in relationships.  I hope these 7 traits enlighten you to so that you cannot change, but be more aware when you have attracted a toxic person.

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7 Reasons Why You May Be Attracting Toxic People

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What Beachbody Coaching has done for My Family

I was the girl that rarely vacationed as a child. We had little time or money even for essentials so vacations were extremely rare.

My mom worked sometimes double shifts as a nurse while going to college to earn her bachelors and masters degree. I have very few memories of her as a child. šŸ˜¢

My dad was a fireman and was gone for 24 hour shifts at a time and either coached or drove me to to soccer, on his days off.

They worked a lot of hours and I remember they fought a lot about money. There was never enough time or money. As a child I'd cry wishing I could "fix it" so I could see them more and they didn't have to fight so much about money. šŸ˜¢

They saved and worked extra just for me to attend a soccer camp one week during summer and I had to earn & contribute my own money from the time I was 9 years old, for anything that was a "non-essential".

I am thankful for ALL of their sacrifices, it gave me purpose, I knew I was a contributor to my family and those lessons made me who I am today. šŸ™šŸ¼

I didn't intend to, but went on through my adult life repeating that same pattern. Work your ass off and while yet, have either not enough time or not enough money to provide what you like for yourself or your children. šŸ˜”. We don't intend to repeat that pattern, but that's kinda what we just end up doing, out of no design or viable options.

I sit here reflecting while our three children have annual passes to Disney, (which I never visited as a child growing up in Florida), sitting in our camper with plans to return home on a Monday (because it's the day WE chose to return- not our boss), and that we are in a position to say YES, to our children's dreams of going to Japan, Washington DC and volleyball camps this summer, and we can say, "yes-we can afford that and have the TIME to experience it all with you."

You bet your butt, as I had to, we require them ALL to earn and pay a portion of all their non-essentials -because having to have skin in the game is GOOD mojo for all of us. šŸ™ŒšŸ¼

I am grateful that by the vision of my own friend, I was lead to Beachbody coaching. If it wasn't for her, I'd be repeating my own childhood on to my children. Work a ton, money and time for a little.

I still work a ton, but now they see it's on my terms, they see the lives I impact, that it's on my time and that WE control our time and income now. 
šŸ‘‰šŸ¼ Not a boss. 
šŸ‘‰šŸ¼ Not an HR department.

ā¤ļø My heart is full of gratitude today for God for all the struggles He gave me as gifts, for my parents and the work ethic and sacrifices they made, for my family for their continued support and patience, for my team for their loyalty, vision and consistency, and for my up line, Lindsay, who by her own vision, showed me a change WAS possible.

I know, that some may think that network marketing is a scam. Im not sharing my story for those folks. My story is to provide hope for those that grew up just like me and are stuck repeating the SAME THING as adults wondering if change is ever possible.

It IS possible.

This business has brought my husband Neil home from working 80 hours a week at the car dealership. Our son has never known what it's like to have his parents miss events because we were working. Our children don't hear us fight and stress over money, they way I had to.

I believe this business's biggest blessing is that through hard work and consistency- it has forever changed the course of our family's future.

For that, I am very very grateful. šŸ™šŸ¼

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It takes a TEAM to be Successful

A girl messaged me about joining my coaching team today and said something that left me nearly in tears...šŸ˜¢

She said, "I would love to coach, but I don't think I'd be successful because I'm at all not smart, like you." šŸ˜ž

What.....SMART??

Her comment surprised me because what she perceives on the "surface" is NOTHING like reality.

The reality was that "Smart" was NEVER a word that people would have used to describe "Seay" as a kid. Smart was OTHER people, not me. I was NEVER a good student. In fact- I was a solid "C" student, pretty much my entire life. I was usually on some sort of academic probation. šŸ˜ž. I tried to get good grades, but always seemed to fall short. I took the SAT and got such a low score I couldn't bare to take it again. šŸ˜ž

In my circles it was always my friends that were taking HONORS classes and excelled in tests. THEY were sought out by students for help. I was the one that STRUGGLED to pass even regular classes and that always NEEDED help. Admittedly- I resigned to seeing myself as the "dumb jock" and focused on my soccer skills to validate my worth.

Growing up I often felt completely uneducated on debatable topics. I'd admire how others would discuss quality topics with so much insight, but was left feeling quite ignorant because I didn't know what the heck they were talking about.

Hearing this girl today say she "couldn't be successful because she wasn't smart like me" kinda gutted me, because I had felt just like that for so much of MY LIFE. I believed I'd never get a decent paying job with my grades. Even if I did know something, I stuttered, so who would even take me seriously?

What changed for me was that I had a few very special friends in my life that BELIEVED in me and through their belief, I found that although I am a very slow reader and that it takes me a while to process information, I love learning and I can TEACH what I learn to others really well through analogies and perspectives.

So THAT's what I did. šŸ’
I researched topics and applied experiences that called to my heart. 
ā¤ļø Then---> I taught my team & clients how to APPLY it so it HELPS THEM.

Look- Know that we ALL start at zero knowledge and zero experience on EVERY TOPIC but you can't let that feeling of feeling like you're at zero keep you stuck at zero! 
 I know the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people that BELIEVE IN and INSPIRE you to learn and BECOME MORE. ā­ļø

You don't need to be like or think like ME--> or anyone else for that matter. I will teach you what I have learned, and trust me when I say---> you will absolutely teach ME stuff, too šŸ˜. We work as a TEAM and all have individual strengths. It's a fact that we will always be either a student or a teacher throughout our entire life.

ā­ļø Unapologetically study what makes your heart flutter, SHARE it with others and in the process you will start developing your strengths and reaching your God-given potential šŸ’«šŸ’«šŸ’«

#ItTakesATeamToBeSuccessful

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Winning in Your Head

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Winning in Your Head

One of the biggest MYTHS I see people believe is that if their circumstances are DIFFERENT, then they will finally achieve the outcome they desire.

They blame OTHERS for their failures, mistakes and circumstances. They can't own their mistakes. It's always someone or something else.

I see it more often in business, but also in relationships.

When you give away your power by blaming others, you also give away the very opportunity to GROW in your own life. It may feel easier to do short term, but is more damaging to your growth in the long run.

Why?

You stay a victim and you will stay POWERLESS.

Feeling powerless will keep you STUCK and ANGRY.

And you take that internal angry victim mentality right along with you to the next business or relationship. The people and platform may change, but YOU haven't.
You and your SAME issues will eventually, resurface when the honeymoon is over.

Surrounding yourself with others also stuck in that same powerless anger doesn't validate yours nor does it justify you.

YOU validate, you.

Guess what- there will always be stiff that happens in life. We are always being given opportunities to mature. We ALL have insecure thoughts that get in our head, and we all have triggers that can make us defensive.

It's how well you can take ownership in them and GROW from them that will ultimately determine your happiness, mental freedom and long term quality of life.

The grass is not only greener where you water it, but it also flourishes with the quality of fertilizer you FEED it.

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Is 1st Phorm a Healthy Choice?

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Is 1st Phorm a Healthy Choice?

Is 1st Phorm a Healthy Choice? A company called 1st Phorm has been advertising heavily lately, so I took a look at what they are offering. I'm always curious about weight loss and fitness programs and how they stack up against those offered by Beachbody. I'm all about health and fitness so if there's something else good out there, I want to know about it.

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Healthier Fettuccine Alfredo

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Healthier Fettuccine Alfredo

You wouldn't think that the creamy, buttery indulgence of Alfredo sauce could be anything but a dietary nightmare, but a healthier version is possible. The good news is that this recipe is every bit as delicious, with only a fraction of the fat and calories.

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Kale Pesto

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Kale Pesto

Step up your pesto game by adding the rich flavor and dense nutrition of kale. You will fall in love with this simple recipe that can be used with a wide variety of dishes.

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